please stop saying “pan and bi are the same it just depends on which term someone prefers”

you might think you’re respecting how pan and bi people identify

but you’re invalidating the fact that to a lot of pan and bi people, they are two different identities that have different meanings and connotations

saying identifying as pan or bi comes down to a label preference is saying that every pan and bi person could be or technically is both, when that is very much so not the case

not every pan and bi person identifies with the other term in the slightest or feels it’s an “option” for them or is comfortable with their feelings about their identity and the nuances of it being erased to conflate the two

you can’t respect that someone identifies as either pan or bi if you’re not respecting what those words mean to them

and of course one should also consider the basic fact that they are two different identities with different meanings and histories

this has been a psa in honor of pan week

sheabutterbitch:

nostalgia2006:

ppl who say they’re “brutally honest” are more interested in the brutality than the honesty

Where is your compassionate honesty?

Positivity blogs HATE her! Area woman is ALREADY VALID

cwote:

i love this quote soooo much. it shows that you are still perfect while you are getting better :))

dankmemeuniversity:

bl-00d-y-cry-p-tid:

s41gy0:

Wow. She is so cognitive.

Hello lady I’d just like to tell you how cognitive your child is

rupturedspleen:

“my hands look like this so hers can look like that” meme except the first is manicured nails and the second is covered in dirt because the first is working a desk job to support her and her wife, who is growing a big beautiful vegetable garden in their yard

postmarxed:

tilthat:

TIL that because of a mistranslation Jimmy Carter told the Polish people in 1977 that he desired them carnally and that he had left the United States to never return.

via reddit.com

Imagine being a Polish citizen and you hear the American president say he’s here to fuck and he’s not leaving

soft-symbiote:

onlyxciii:

urulokid:

id like to thank the venom fandom, the true last bastion of nsfw fanart on this hellsite. ive been here for like seven years and its just so fitting that the last explosion of horny art, the last gasp if you will, was lovingly rendered monsterfucking slime tenderly jacking off its host, tom hardy

thank you its been an honor

insomniarama:

I saw Goody Proctor reblogging female-presenting nipples